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Running the isolation marathon

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As New Zealanders have been isolated at home for three weeks and they see the end in sight, they’re being encouraged to run this like a marathon.

The temptation when you are nearly there is to become a bit slack, says Caroline Loo, the Director of the Loss and Grief Centre in Invercargill.

Maintaining routines and structure are useful at this time.

“If you are running a marathon, the last part is probably the hardest, so it’s important to pace yourselves and stick to the game plan.”

If structures and routines are working for households, they should retain these.

Steady as she goes is really important.”

 

For the past three weeks, New Zealand has been at Covid-19 Alert Level 4, meaning folk are isolated at home, except for those carrying out essential services. This level may change in a week or so.

Caroline recommends breaking each day into bite-sized chunks, enjoying it and deliberately trying to find at least one positive aspect about it.

Being kind to yourself helps, as does understanding that you may be grieving because the world has changed. A ‘new normal’ will exist, but no-one knows how this will look.

Job situations, travel possibilities and other parts of life have changed or are unknown for many.

“Be self aware, notice what you are feeling and do something with those feelings.”

She says it is more effective to use your logical, thinking brain rather than your feeling brain as you work out your self-identity. Taking each day by itself aids this by providing structure and a sense of control.

What are the silver linings?

As this marathon finishing line looms, Caroline suggests reflecting on what the positives have been.

“There has been silver linings on those dark clouds,” she says. “Moments which have been really cool or positive.”

She tells a tale of staying up late with her daughter to look at the night sky, and the thrill of seeing the SpaceX Starlink satellite train.

As well as identifying the positives, people shouldn’t assume that everybody has had the same experience during this time.

Loss and Grief Centre Director Caroline Loo takes a walk in Invercargill’s Queens Park, which she lives opposite. Photo: Rachel Loo

For some, the household isolation will have been a glorious period that has strengthened their family base while, for others, it has been lonely and challenging or, even, torrid.

“We need to look for the positives but don’t assume all experiences are the same.”

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